sometimes we forget..

hi there..
it's been a while snce i last posting smthng in this blog..ramai yg tanya,apsal lama x update..
huhu..actually bukan tak nak update,tp kdg2 tu terlupa or mmg x de masa nak update..
anyway,snce i got some extra time here,i want to share smthng wif u all..
erm,it's like dis..mmg dalam hidup ni kita x dapat lari dari wat keputusan..kdg2 keputusan yg kita wat tu bkn keputusan yg kita nak wat..tp demi utk kebaikan smua pihak dan supaya tidak menimbulkan apa2 masalah di kemudian hari,kita tetap jgk wat keputusan tu..
tp,itu tak bermaksud kita leh wat keputusan itu tanpa berfikir pjg atau tidak memikirkan apakah kesannya pd diri kita sendiri kerana kita yg akan menghadapi segala kesan drpda keputusan yg kita wat tu..for instance,kita kena bertanggungjawab sepenuhnya terhadap keputusan yg kita wat walaupun keputusan tersebut bukanlah keputusan "favourite" kita..
so,nak atau tidak,kita tetap kena menghadapinya dan hanya perlu berdoa dan berharap semoga keputusan tersebut akan mendatangkan kesan positif yg maksimum kepada kita dan org2 disekeliling kita..
dan selalunya kita lupa elemen tersebut..elemen itu ialah berdoa..yes,we sometimes forget to pray for happiness in our life..even kita di dalam masalah mcm mana sekalipun,kita kna byk bersabar dan berdoa supaya stiap masalah tersebut dapat kita lalui dgn sabar dan tenang..tidak perlu kita terlalu tension atau pening utk fikirkan sesuatu hinggakan kita sendiri tidak nmpak jalan penyelesaian yg boleh kita ambil..
so,back to basic,bykkan bersabar dan berdoa..semua kejadian di dunia ini ada hikmahnya..tak perlu kita terlalu mengikut emosi..fikirlah secara rasional,InsyaAllah kita akan mendapat petunjukNya..
for my good frens out there,as what i said earlier,byk2 bersabar dan berdoalah utk mencari jalan penyelesaian kpd masalah yg sedang dihadapi,k..anythng u wish to share,just tell me..i'll try my best to help u all.k..
erm,i thnk dats all for now..
jmpa lagi nnt,k..salam..

SERASI

this is da song which i dedicated to my lovely wife, siti nurshazwani on our wedding day..this song actually i wrote based on our love story snce day 1 i met her till da day we r married..da song title is "SERASI"..

DETIK PERTEMUAN ITU
ANTARA KAU DAN AKU
DALAM KEINDAHAN MALAM
KU MELIHAT WAJAHMU

c/o KAU TERSENYUM PADAKU
KU TERPEGUN TERKELU
HARI DEMI HARI
KASIH MULA BERSEMI
KU RASA KITA SERASI

SUKA DUKA TEMPUHI RANJAU DUKA
SEMOGA KASIH KITA KAN KEKAL
HINGGA KE AKHIR HAYAT
KASIH KITA ABADI

(ulang c/o 2 x)


lyric by : syukrisyah
compose by : ipin ibanez (ariifin shafie)
1st perform by : kerel and da gang(kerel,badaque,epyn,kandaque n crab)

thanks so much guys..

salam..
it's already 3 weeks snce my wedding day in kedah..so,dah 3 mggu i dh jd husband org la..huhu..actually i dnt hve enuf time utk check email,fesbuk or even update my blog..so srry..huhu..
anyway,i jz want to say thanks so much for all my frens out there yg sudi dtg memeriahkan my wedding reception both in alor setar n kuantan..mmg x sangka ramai tul yg sudi dtg..i'm so sorry klo ms kenduri tu x dapat jumpa dgn semua org n say thanks to u all..cz,ms tu mmg x smpt nak jmpa smua..spr2 yg smpt i jmpa,jmpa la..huhu..thanks also pd mereka2 yg sudi bg wedding present kat ktorg..mcm2 yg ktorg dapat hadiah..n also for MC CLASS of 2002 for da PHILLIPS HOME THEATRE..siyesly mmg x sangka korg smua sanggup collect duit utk bg hadiah tu..nnt aku bli mic,kta karaoke ramai2,k..huhu..
n, insyaAllah me n my lovely wife(siti nurshazwani) will held a kenduri doa selamat n housewarming makan2 kat umah ktorg kat sunway..details bout dat akan diberitahu nnt cz ktorg still tgh tggu umh ktorg siap utk di renovate,still under renovation snce last tuesday..huhu..jgn risau,smua akan dijemput nnt..
erm,last but not least,for all my frens starting from my classmates ms skolah rendah,budak2 koleq(class of 2002),members matriks gambang pahang(praktikum14) plus mut n her girlfren nisa,members from MIAT n members from MAS yg dtg ms kenduri aritu, x kira r kat alor setar or kuantan or even both(epyn,rizal,sole n hayyum) thanks so much guys for all ur effort to come all da way from ur place to make my wedding reception smthng yg meaningful to my life..
n again,jgn lupa dtg umah nnt,k..
c u wen i c u,k..bubye..

see u in kuantan..

hi there..
i'm still in alor setar..supposed dah blk kl ptg td,tp atas sbb2 yg x leh dielakkan,kna balik pg esk r..
anyway,my kenduri in kuantan is jz another 3,4 days to go..so,pd saper2 yg terlepas kenduri kat kedah tu,u all r invited to kuantan pulak r..yg dah dtg kedah pn,dtg la jgk eh..for mc class of 2002,dis time around,kasik lg gempak dr alor setar,k..dgr cte,epyn ada plan baik pnya utk korg..tp,aku x sure r ape dia pnya plan,kna tnya dia r,k..
so,life after marriage ni,mmg x leh nak digambarkan dgn kata2 r..spr2 yg dah kawin n nikah secara sah dia tau r..huhu..mcm ape yg i dscss wif my wife ptg td r..actually ktorg br g amik sijil nikah td..so sijil tu mcm lesen r utk wat 'ape2 yg patut' secara terang2 n x perlu rs takut..huhu..so,dgn adanya sijil tu,ktorg leh wat ape yg ktorg nak,ble2 ms,kat mana2 pn jua..huhu..
k la,byk sgt melalut dah ni..nak wat 'keje' sket..jmpa di kuantan 27/12 ni eh..c u wen i c u..bubye..

thanks guys..

salam..first of all thanks so much for those yg dapat dtg ms wedding smlm..mmg x sangka ramai tul yg dapat dtg.roughly i think bout 40 kot..i really appreciate it..for all mc class of 2002,u all really cool n make it happen to me..ramai yg i x dapat invite personally tp sudi hadir..thanks so much..for kerel and da gang(epyn,badaque,crab n kandaque) thanks guys..susah2 korg dtg,practice n perform..mache pn leh include skali r..huhu..kandaque for "betterman" song..lama gle x jmpa ko..for my frens from MAS(azul,farhan n zaim),thanks for coming..azul for being my bestman even at da very last minute..fatin hamamah fr all your effort n sacrifices..for farouk,i like ur dressing..for sole n hayyum for making sure ramai yg i x dpt get thru tau pasal wedding ni(cz tlg promote kat blog)..for anas abdul rahman cz sudi jd host for u guys..for stevie cz promote kat group..keano for all da pics,nnt aku grab..n pd saper2 yg i x dapat mention kat sini,thanks for all your effort to ensure my wedding goes as per plan..anyway,as i said earlier,u guys really cool n make it happen..then,so srry klo ada ape2 x puas ati or x ckup makan or x cukup masa utk usha awekss..zef n alang,nnt aku tlg ushakan,k..sher pn sama,jgn risau..huhu..n jgn lupa dtg on this coming saturday 27/12/2008 kat kuantan pulak,k..saper2 yg x dapat dtg smlm,dtg la ktn punya,k..k guys,ada "keje" sket nak wat..biasa la kan..huhu..c u wen i c u,k..bye2..

less than 24 hour..

hi there..
it's about another 24 hour before the 'akad nikah' will be held..huhu..ntahlah,x tau la nak ckp cmnr my feeling right now..happy,nervous,confuse,tkut pn ada gak..huhu..
actually,pg td my 2nd sis call me,leh plk dia tnya,'apa perasaan skrg??'then, ape yg i ckp kat dia..ntahlah ngah,x reti nak describe cmnr..
tkut jgk buatnya tok kadi esk byk plk tnya nya..huhu..but hopefully,everything will be alrite..
now,i've come to one junction which need me to take da dicision either to turn left or right..so,i really have to commit myself n whichever path yg i took,i hve to really make do of it..cess,mcm pujangga bermadah pulak..huhu..ni la byk sgt dgr lagu jiwang2..huhu..tp lately ni mmg byk sgt lagu jiwang yg i dgr..cz,nak prepare utk kerel n da gang pnya performance ms wedding day tu r..jgn sumbang mambang dah r nnt..tp,i have faith in them dat they will deliver wif a good performance dat day..anyway,really thanks for them cz sudi nak main band ms my wedding nnt..brotherhood guys..:)
right now,i'm in bangi,in my bro inlaw pnya ofis while waiting for him to send me to erl going to klia..actually i planned to take afternoon flight to alor setar,tp fully booked r pulak..so,ada next flight pn pkul 8 mlm ni..tu pn tggl 6 seats jer lagi..x tau la leh dapat ke x..klo x,esok pg r br leh grk..tp,rsnya leh dapat kot flight mlm ni..
so,smntra mnuggu ms berlalu ni,i jz want to share something dng u all out there..
it's like this..never ever in your life assume something without really know bout it..cz,at the end,u might be in 2 side..wether in a loser or winner side..klo winner side,ok r,u r lucky..tp klo in da loser side,perghhh,mmg pedih sungguh kesannya..x kan hilang kesannya even gna pencuci dynamo kaler biru..tp klo nak wangi n bau lemon warna hijau kot..gna clorox pn,x sure leh hilang lg,tp for sure akan sbbkan tangan jd pedih cz clorox ni sifatnya menghakis kan..huhu..mcm expert applied chemistry plk..padahal x penah msuk university pn penah lah msuk,g tgk my sis pnya convo..huhu..kesian kan i..=)whatever it is,environment kna jg elok2,so jgn discharge polluted things mcm tu jer..especially water tretment plant pnya personnel..kna keje tul2,klo x nnt absla udara kita tercemar..apelah yg melalut ni..ni smua blaja ms industrial safety course dulu la..huhu..lama dah,tp leh r igt sket2 lg cz itu very first course kot..whatever it is,u guys out there better watch out..make sure before assuming smthng,pls bear in mind dat whatever ur assumption might end up differently from what u aredi imagined..cz kesannya mmg mendalam..tkut nnt x berdaya menahan seksa bak kata2 pepatah melayu,"makanan dimulut diluah krn rsnya amat pedas"..huhu..cz,i x leh mkn pedas2 sgt nnt skt perut..
anyway,end of dat part,stay focus n alert..chaiyok2..mcm cte winter sonata r pulak..youjin dgn ape ntah nama balak korea tu..adeh,lupa plk..huhu..aha,nama dia jun sang..cte lama tu..
anyway,mgkn ni my last post as a bachelor..lps ni title dah tukar..huhu..dah ada another tanggungjawab r..thanks a lot pd yg faham n really taught me how to managed my self n change my way of thinking..klo x,for sure mcm budak2 lg..skrng ni dah separa budak,separa dewasa kot..yeke??
for sure,akan ada perubahan dah nama pn manusia kn,msti ada ubah sket2..even x smua pn..
k la,need to go..WISH ME LUCK for tomorrow n pray for my success in my entire life,k..tq..adios..

as time goes by..

hi..so, seems like evrything will conclude in next 6 or 5 days..so far evrything mcm yg dh planned r,alhamdulillah..jz a minor2 thing yg still kna sort out..
anyway,thanks for those yg wish me..thanks also pd yg dapat dtg ms wedding nnt..pd yg x dpt dtg,it's ok..
actually,hari ni agak mlas cz hjn lbt smua,tp ble terfikirkan pasal smthng yg come out pg td,trus rs mcm nak ckp smthng jgk r..huhu..it;s like dis..one of my fren asked me dis morning..did i really hve make up my mind to get married at dis age..i knw he jz like to make fun of it..but, i insist n cnfrm to him dat i really want to commit myself..anyway, somehow someday we will commit ourself,am i rite??so, it is jz bout da time..
so, in a week time i'll be married n become a husband to someone..mayb, lots of guys out there afraid of dat title.."laki org tu"..but,for me, "apa ada pada nama??"..huhu..actually,if we look at da bright or positive side,byk jgk benefit n advantage kawin pd usia muda ni..one of them,it will teach us on how nak managed diri n family..ala2 mcm berdikari r..somemore,if kita plan nak ada generasi,ms muda2 ni r plng bgs ..cz,kita msh kuat n sht utk jg n beri apa yg dorg nak..n, ble kita dah tua nnt,dorg pn dah besar pjg,dah x yah nak depend kat kita lg..somemore,kita lak leh depend kat dorg..actually i learn dis from my family myself..my parents got married ms dorg muda belia lg..tu yg ramai anak tu..huhu..nope, i mean mcm skrg my parents dah middle 50's,tp anak2 smua dah besar,ada yg dah kawin,dah ada anak pn..smua dah keje,so my parents dah x payah nak pening2 psl anak2 lg..dah leh hepi2 abskan ms kat umh,kdg2 main dgn cucu2 smua..cz,x kan smpai ke tua nnt still nak pening pasal skolah anak smua,tul x??so,dr situ mula terdetik rs nak ada fmly tu..
then,lg satu rs wat ape nak buang ms,tenaga n wang ringgit utk couple2 ni smua..blajar dr kesilapan lampau,ble couple ni msti byk kuar duit,tul x??byk buang ms kesana kesini kesinun..tp,abuk pun tarak..nnt org tnya mcm2,tp nak jawap pn segan..yela, x kan dgn bangga nya nak jawap ble org tnya.."ko dgn saper tu mat or minah??" saya dgn makwe or pakwe..huhu..tp klo dah kawin,snang2 jer leh ckp, saya dgn isteri sy..kan bgs cmtu..huhu..
duit yg di invest pn utk isteri sendiri biarpun berpuluh,beratus or even beribu2 lemon..huhu..klo stakat couple,mana lah tau satu ari jodoh x der,terputus,kan rugi tu..blanja mcm2,alih2 x der ape..bab2 feeling ni jgn main2 woo..arini ckp lain,esk leh ckp lain plk..so,utk be at da safe side,klo dah mampu tu kawin jer la,wat pe tggu lama2..
lagu satu,bercakap pasal mampu or tak ni..mmg perkara ni agak sensitif n subjektif..cz, x smua org rezeki nya sama..ada org dapat lebih,ada org dapat kurang..tp,smua itu hnya satu alasan sbenarnya..cz,kta sbg manusia,human nature kn,x kan penah cukupnya,tul x??so,tepuk dada,tnya lah fikiran yg tuhan bg tu,k..
dahlah,malas dah nak bebel pjg2..smua dah besar n dah leh fikir baik buruknya,k..jz fr my dear fren yg asked me pg td,jwpnnya seperti di atas r..huhu..
semoga berjumpa lg lain kali n of course,jgn lupa dtg ms wedding nnt n bwk adiah bsr2,k..huhu..chiow..bubye..