Friday, December 12, 2008

as time goes by..

hi..so, seems like evrything will conclude in next 6 or 5 days..so far evrything mcm yg dh planned r,alhamdulillah..jz a minor2 thing yg still kna sort out..
anyway,thanks for those yg wish me..thanks also pd yg dapat dtg ms wedding nnt..pd yg x dpt dtg,it's ok..
actually,hari ni agak mlas cz hjn lbt smua,tp ble terfikirkan pasal smthng yg come out pg td,trus rs mcm nak ckp smthng jgk r..huhu..it;s like dis..one of my fren asked me dis morning..did i really hve make up my mind to get married at dis age..i knw he jz like to make fun of it..but, i insist n cnfrm to him dat i really want to commit myself..anyway, somehow someday we will commit ourself,am i rite??so, it is jz bout da time..
so, in a week time i'll be married n become a husband to someone..mayb, lots of guys out there afraid of dat title.."laki org tu"..but,for me, "apa ada pada nama??"..huhu..actually,if we look at da bright or positive side,byk jgk benefit n advantage kawin pd usia muda ni..one of them,it will teach us on how nak managed diri n family..ala2 mcm berdikari r..somemore,if kita plan nak ada generasi,ms muda2 ni r plng bgs ..cz,kita msh kuat n sht utk jg n beri apa yg dorg nak..n, ble kita dah tua nnt,dorg pn dah besar pjg,dah x yah nak depend kat kita lg..somemore,kita lak leh depend kat dorg..actually i learn dis from my family myself..my parents got married ms dorg muda belia lg..tu yg ramai anak tu..huhu..nope, i mean mcm skrg my parents dah middle 50's,tp anak2 smua dah besar,ada yg dah kawin,dah ada anak pn..smua dah keje,so my parents dah x payah nak pening2 psl anak2 lg..dah leh hepi2 abskan ms kat umh,kdg2 main dgn cucu2 smua..cz,x kan smpai ke tua nnt still nak pening pasal skolah anak smua,tul x??so,dr situ mula terdetik rs nak ada fmly tu..
then,lg satu rs wat ape nak buang ms,tenaga n wang ringgit utk couple2 ni smua..blajar dr kesilapan lampau,ble couple ni msti byk kuar duit,tul x??byk buang ms kesana kesini kesinun..tp,abuk pun tarak..nnt org tnya mcm2,tp nak jawap pn segan..yela, x kan dgn bangga nya nak jawap ble org tnya.."ko dgn saper tu mat or minah??" saya dgn makwe or pakwe..huhu..tp klo dah kawin,snang2 jer leh ckp, saya dgn isteri sy..kan bgs cmtu..huhu..
duit yg di invest pn utk isteri sendiri biarpun berpuluh,beratus or even beribu2 lemon..huhu..klo stakat couple,mana lah tau satu ari jodoh x der,terputus,kan rugi tu..blanja mcm2,alih2 x der ape..bab2 feeling ni jgn main2 woo..arini ckp lain,esk leh ckp lain plk..so,utk be at da safe side,klo dah mampu tu kawin jer la,wat pe tggu lama2..
lagu satu,bercakap pasal mampu or tak ni..mmg perkara ni agak sensitif n subjektif..cz, x smua org rezeki nya sama..ada org dapat lebih,ada org dapat kurang..tp,smua itu hnya satu alasan sbenarnya..cz,kta sbg manusia,human nature kn,x kan penah cukupnya,tul x??so,tepuk dada,tnya lah fikiran yg tuhan bg tu,k..
dahlah,malas dah nak bebel pjg2..smua dah besar n dah leh fikir baik buruknya,k..jz fr my dear fren yg asked me pg td,jwpnnya seperti di atas r..huhu..
semoga berjumpa lg lain kali n of course,jgn lupa dtg ms wedding nnt n bwk adiah bsr2,k..huhu..chiow..bubye..